今天是清明节,在这轻易感伤的时间,我精选了多少部影音片段与大家一起分享.透过这些故事片段,让我们一起来懂得西方人是如何怀念失去的亲友的.
西方人举办的memorial ceremony,翻译过来类似于我们东方人举办的追思会,老外常会把相似的活动称为Celebration of Life,也就是逝者的人生庆典.
同是追念逝者,货色方人取舍的纪念方法可能会天壤之别,这应当是文明差别所致.东方的追思会,大多氛围凝重压制,毕竟是至深至爱的人离去,大家很难轻松的起来.而老外举办的Celebration of Life形式可就多了,留念的模式大多与逝者的个性有关,比方逝者生前爱热烈,追思会就很可能是个热闹不凡的派对;逝者生前偏爱时尚和艺术,参加追念会的人们可能不会清一色着玄色服装,反而抉择色彩鲜亮惹眼的打扮出场,在轻松和暖和的气氛下,悼念故人的生活点滴hh这样的方式在东方人看来或者有违情理,但实际上,热血传奇私服,形式不同,对逝者深深的缅怀却是雷同的.
Qing Ming Festival, which is also called Tomb Sweeping Day,无英雄传奇, means clear and bright in Chinese, falls on April 4th this year. It is both the fifth term in the traditional lunar calendar and a festival to hold memorial ceremony for the dead.
I guess todayrs topic is a little bit sad because werre gonna look at how western people honor the person who has died and provide tremendous relief for their loved ones.
If you've ever settled a loved one's affairs after death, you know it can be difficult to plan a funeral or memorial service,传奇, because the grief and stress of loss can make decisions even more challenging.
Speaking of the types of memorial services, here is some basic information about the most common types of memorial services. Some people want all of these options; others want none.
Viewing(瞻仰遗容). This is an opportunity for family and friends to view or sit with the body. A viewing is commonly held at a funeral home or mortuary, but sometimes people may choose other places -- for example, their home, a community hall, or a church.
Wake(守夜). Traditionally, a wake is a gathering to celebrate and remember the life of the person who has died. Often characterized by both sadness and gaiety, this gathering can be an important part of the grieving process, allowing family and friends the opportunity to come together and comfort each other. A wake is often held at a family home or a mortuary that offers wake services.
Funeral(葬礼). A funeral is a traditional memorial ceremony, usually held in a funeral home or a church. The body is often present, in either an open or closed casket. Beyond that, there are no absolutes or requirements for planning a funeral. If the deceased person was religious, the funeral often includes a brief mass, blessing, or prayer service.
Thatrs it all about the western types of the memorial services. Letrs take on a movie journey to get to know more about the ways that western people honor the death. Shall we start it now? The following passage is from the movie: P.S. I love you. Here is the memorial ceremony that Holly holds for her dead husband Gerry. Check it out.
在PS I love You 这部片子中,Holly年事微微就失去了丈夫.这一天,亲友们从五湖四海赶来,在Holly妈妈开的酒馆里,为Holly的丈夫Gerry举行了一个memorial ceremony.主持这种运动的人多为牧师,或是圈子中丧尽天良的人.
P.S. I Love you(电影《附言:我爱你》片段)
Well, as Gerry would say, let's get this party started. Gerry Kennedy did not want a lot of words. He preferred music. He was a unique young man...as you can see by the urn he had designed by the love of his life...his wife, Holly. His life may be over for now, but we can still hear it. He lives in us forever in our hearts...like his favorite song.
我的解读:
假如Gerry在世的话,英雄合击传奇私服,他会这样说:让我们的派对开端吧.Gerry不需要我们用太多的语言去追忆他,他更喜欢音乐这种表白情势.他是个很奇特、很超群绝伦的年青人,这一点你从他的挚爱、他妻子mHolly为他设计的骨灰罐上就不丢脸出.固然他的毕生停止了,但他的音容笑容犹在.因为他将永远活在我们的心里,就像他最爱好的这首歌中唱的一样:
Got on a lucky one(有个荣幸的人)
Came in eighteen to one(恰好在某一刻呈现)
I've got a feeling(我有种感觉)
This year's for me and you(今年是属于你我的一年)
So happy Christmas,I love you, baby(圣诞快乐,1.76传奇私服!我爱你,我的法宝)
I can see a better time(我能预感更好的将来)
When all our dreams come trueh(在那里我们的幻想很快都能实现)
The next passage is from the movie Elizabeth Town. Since Drewrs dad--Mitch suddenly died in his hometownmElizabeth Town, his friends and family all come to the stage to honor his death in the memorial ceremony, and remind of the old days they spent with Mitch. His mom is the last one to give out her speech:
在电影《伊丽莎白小镇》当中,男主角Drew的爸爸Mitch溘然在故乡伊丽莎白镇去世,亲友们在这里为他举办了盛大的葬礼和纪念活动.大家独特追忆了和Mitch共度的时间,描写了Mitch的种种趣事.追念活动的序幕,Drew母亲的这段话,让人感想很多.难怪西方人强调"逝世但不逝去"这种说法,逝者已逝,www.haixiaoshuo.com,唯有思念不变;逝者已逝,活着的人更要好好面对生活,这才是对逝者最大的藉慰.
Elizabeth Town(电影《伊丽莎白小镇》片段)
I'm a little nervous. But here we are. It's been a while. There was this shorthand of a long marriage. We were complete opposites, and it worked. The plan was to send... my son to represent the family. I was terrified that you would look at me and see... that woman from California who took him away. Even though we only lived in California as a family... for 18 months,新开传奇sf1.76, 27 years ago... I always... felt it. All because I was standing in an elevator in Tokyo... and this handsome captain walked in... on his way home to Elizabethtown. And he was engaged. And so was l. And somehow I hijacked him and took him to Disneyland! But something happened between us... that was not part of the plan. We were in love. Let me tell you a little bit about life without Mitch. I wanted to get to know about Mitch's car... and it actually ate me. I went to the bank and the teller looked at me strangely... and I got home and I looked at myself in the mirror... and my face was still green from a facial mask... that I had forgotten to take off. And I called our insurance man of 30 years... whose son Mitch had actually helped to get into West Point... to tell him that Mitch was gone. He didn't call me back for two days. The car, the bank, the insurance man, the world. I mean, nobody truly cared. Not like us. I always wanted to learn to tap dance... so I took tap dance lessons. And I wanted to learn... Yeah, I did. And I wanted to learn to cook organically...and so I attempted that. And I fixed the toilet. Yeah. All by myself. And I wanted to learn to laugh. Why couldn't I be funnier when Mitch was alive? But you know, I figured it out. It takes time to be funny...and it takes time to extract joy from life. So I enrolled in comedy school. Yeah, I did. I know, I know. I was the oldest one in the class. Thank you. And we were told to tell a story. Something true, something that really happened to us. So I got up there and I talked about my husband...and the love he left behindh Oh, dear. He rooted for all of you. I love you. This is for you, your favorite song... on a Saturday night.
我的解读:
我有点缓和,因为有段时光没来这里了,不外我们终极还是来了.有种说法能够概括我们漫长的婚姻, 我俩是截然不同的两种人,然而却相处得很融洽hh 原来的打算是由我的儿子来代表全家讲话,因为我担忧你们大家会怪罪我,这个来自加州的女人,当年抢走了你们最爱的人.究竟,自从咱们结婚后,Mitch就很少回来.只管二十七年前,我们只在加州住了十八个月hh 但我始终能感到得到,Mitch由于和我联合而阔别了你们,合击sf,这件事特别让你们介怀.当年我们相遇在东京,有次我乘电梯,突然一位俊秀的军官走了进来,他当时正筹备返回他在伊丽莎白镇的家. 我们各有婚约,但不知怎么搞的我拉他同游了迪斯尼乐园! 接着,巧妙的事情发生了.这完整不在我们的规划之中,我们相爱了hh 让我来讲讲在不Mitch的日子里我是怎么渡过的吧!从前家里大大小小的事件都是由Mitch打理的,当初我要自己学着去修他的车,成果差点被车子的引擎盖夹住了头.我去银行的时候,出纳员用特殊惊讶的眼光望着我,回到家里照着镜子我才发明,本来自己满脸绿色,敷着的面膜居然忘了摘下来洗净hh我打电话给我们的保险经纪...在过去的三十年间他一直和我们家有亲密往来,他儿子进西点军校仍是Mitch帮的忙hh我告知他米彻过世了,结果他两天都没给我回电话.我是说,全部世界实在没有人像我们这样,真正在乎Mitch的逝世活.我一直想学踢踏舞hh 所以Mitch走后我报名加入了踢踏舞学习班,我很想学,所以我做到了.我还想学有机烹调...所以我也做了尝试.接下来我不得不单独处置生活琐事,我还修了马桶, 没找任何人帮忙全靠的自己.我想学会微笑面对生活,近来也时常感叹,为什么Mitch活着的时候,我就不能风趣点呢? 后来我想清楚,幽默是须要时间的hh 从生涯中找寻快活也是需要时间的.所以我上了笑剧学校,成了众多学生中年纪最大的一个hh 老师让我们讲一个故事, 实在的、真正产生在我们身上的事,于是我站起来,给大家讲起了我的丈夫hh还有他留下的那份爱hh 敬爱的家人朋友,传说中最能耍赖的交警, Mitch有了你们的关爱和支撑可以入土为安了.我爱你,这是献给你的,你最爱的那首歌hh
Desperate Housewives(美剧《失望的主妇》片断)
飓风从前后的下战书,Tom跟孩子们被从废墟中救出来,全都平安无事,只有Mrs. McCluscky的友人Ada可怜遇难.Lenette的儿子Parker告她,Ada是为了救他们才遇难的,Lenette听后为自己先前对Ada的不友爱而抱歉不已.据说Ada想把本人的骨灰洒在曾经酷爱过的棒球球场,Lenette 和Mrs. McCluscky信心辅助Ada实现遗言,两人有天趁入夜偷溜进了棒球场.在为挚友洒骨灰之前,Mrs. McCluscky为Ada献上了一首小诗,题为《别在我的墓前为我呜咽》:
Lenette: do you maybe wanna say sth first?
Mrs McCluscky: um, yes, I guess so.
Do not stand at my grave and weep.
别在我的墓前为我哭泣
Irm not there, I do not sleep
我不在那里 我没有长眠
I am a thousands winds that blow
我是吹过的缕缕大风
I am the diamond gleams of snow
我是雪花的点点光辉
I am the sunlight on ripe and grain,
我是照在成熟庄稼上的阳光
I am the gentle autumnrs rain
我是秋天如丝的细雨
Do not stand at my grave and cry.
别在我的墓前为我哭泣
I am not there, I did not die.
我不在那里 我没有分开人间